If you are new to Minds On Fire, you may want to start with True Confessions — it cuts to the core of what I’ll be exploring on the blog. You can find Part 1 of Right to Learn here.
13 Ways of Looking at the Issue: A Magpie’s View of the Peer Problem
“Loneliness does not come from having no people about one, but from being unable to communicate to others the things that seem important to oneself, or from holding certain views which others find inadmissible…’— C.J. Jung
The short version: A child’s feeling truly accepted often has more to do with their peer group than with the individual child’s social development.
Children have a need to feel accepted by their peers. It is a central, universal drive. Acceptance by one’s peers has a profound impact on how one feels about oneself. A growing number of studies show that a sense of belonging impacts not just the development of a positive self-concept but also academic performance.
“The people I met were all skimming along the surface of what I was drowning in.”
My friend Rob was telling me about the feeling of isolation he felt … Read the rest